First want to say, dont spam in this thread. Only post if you have an opinion on the topic.
This was written by my fiance...so its in her perspective, keep that in mind:
ok, so me and the father of my baby live together with my parents. We signed a contract to stay here for a year. We talked to his mom about moving in with her. Where she was living she couldn't have more than four people living there because of her manager. So, she decided to move in June when her contract was up. She moved into a four bedroom house that she is renting from a friend from church.
Since, my parents moved out of where we used to live to move into a bigger place to fit all of us, they need help with rent so I tried talking with my bf about staying...so he told his mom that we might not be moving in. So she told his older bro that he could move in with her again. (part of the reason we liked the idea of moving in with her is that our daughter was going to get her own room.) So we decided that we would still move in with her even though Karen wasn't going to get her own room and the room we would be getting would be slightly smaller then the one were in now.
My bf doesn't get along to well with his soon to be step-dad and expressed his opion about him to his mom. Personaly I feel there is something off with him and so do a few others that have met him. Now she's using the fact and that theres going to be too many people to tell us we can't move in. When we are one of the reasons she moved out.
With my parents, I'm under too much stress becuase my mom and sister don't like him and they are telling me all the time to leave him. Because I'm under a lot of stress taking care of a baby and my mom and sister on my back I don't want to live here any more. They talk shit on the way we take care of her. If we moved out on our own it would be very hard, we don't make that much money neither of us have a collage eduation...my MIL says that we should move into a place that helps out with rent, but they have a waiting list for that. As much as I would rather be on our own then living with a whole bunch of people, we don't have anything to move out on our own.
I really like my MIL, but she's really put us in a hard place because she "changed her mind". I wouldn't want to do anything to hurt her, but she's got me so mad...Now the place that she lives is owned by a member of her church and Nacy the owner stated that she didn't want my MIL's fiance to move in untill after they were married. (yet i don't know why it was ok for us to move in without being married). He was going to live with a friend nearby untill auguest. Since moving into the place, they have moved his things in and he has spent the night every night. I feel bad for Nacy because my MIL is lying to her. I'm not sure what Nacy would do to my MIL if she knew what was going on in her home that she is renting to her.
Should I tell the home owner what is going on in her home?
That was our situation about 1 months ago....this is our current situation:
We now have to move out on our own or with our friends because her parents are possibly moving too and dont want anything to do with me. We found an apartment for 1200 a month with everything paid for for 2 bed 1 bath...but we could pay less and get a bigger place and live with my friends, but it would only be about $400 cheaper, what do you think?
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